Thursday, December 17, 2009

SHAME, GUILT AND EMBARRASSMENT

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SHAME. GUILT. EMBARRASSMENT. All of us living in the fallenness of Adam with our darkened minds suffer with shame and guilt. Needlessly!!!

We look back on sins of actions and sins of thought and these make us feel distanced from the Holy God. We feel that this is who we are, or were, and that this person is not good enough or worthy to be mentioned in the same sentence with Jesus Christ.

Shame is a heavy load, indeed, carried around by us. We have hidden sins, closet habits, weaknesses of all kinds and shame. No one is immune to these feelings.

So what is the solution? What is the answer? Where was or is Jesus in all of my garbage can of life? ANSWER: He is IN the can with us! Jesus meets us IN our darkness revealing Himself to us as comforter and Saviour. As friend and companion. As forgiver and deliverer. As friend.

Jesus knows the power of His sacrifice and the power of His becoming sin for us and tasting death for all of us. ( II Cor.5:21; Heb.2:9). Even in our darkness and while we are still sinners Jesus is NOT ASHAMED to call us brothers and sisters. Why? Because He has taken all the sin, shame, guilt, suffering, and death upon Himself FOR all of us FREEING us to live in Him the Abundant life of freedom in total forgiveness, acceptance, and love. How good is that?

Yes, in my life in the fallenness of Adam I have done many things, thought many things that caused my death in the first Adam. But Praise be to God, IN Jesus I, and you, have been made ALIVE---FOREVER. ( I Cor.15:22). God is Good. Thank you Jesus.

Amen

Paul Kurts

www.newlifewcg.org
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1 comment:

Paul David Kurts said...

Dad thank you for this article. When I think about shame, guilt, and embarrassment I realize that none of these are fruits of the Spirit listed in Galatians 5. So we know these don't come from the Father, Son, or Spirit. Where then do they come from? They come from the enemy who's primary goal is to drive us away from God in order to keep us in darkness. He uses shame, guilt, and embarrassment to do this, just as he did thousands of years ago with Adam and Eve. Thanks for reminding all of us once again just how big the Father's love really is!